More about the effects of FAS

"Children with Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE) may present with cognitive, behavioral, and psychological dysfunction that can cause lifelong disabilities. Abnormal cognitive functioning manifests in a variety of domains, including mathematical deficiency, difficulty with time and space, cause and effect, comprehension, and memory deficits. Further, children with FAE may demonstrate poor attention and concentration skills, impaired judgment, hyperactivity and impulsivity. Conduct
problems such as lying, stubbornness, stealing, and oppositional behavior are also present in some children with FAE (Streissguth, 1997)."

My child definitely struggles with impulse control, cause and effect and most recently severe mood swings. Often times my child will get very frustrated and upset over a very mild occurrence simply because he/she lacks the ability to comprehend or understand what is happening or has happened. Since my child also struggles with speech, often times out of frustration of not knowing how to express his/her feelings (sadness, being mad or hurt)he/she will act out violently. Recently though, my child has made the connection with that behavior being inappropriate and will apologize profusely. I'm reassured this is a great sign!

As I mentioned before, my child is full of energy. We have tried just about every medicine possible for ADHD; and after documenting the side effects and observing his/her behavior, I have decided against the medication fix. I must say at times the constant energy flow is a bit overwhelming, however my child is much more kinder in spirit.

Mental illness can be a challenge children with FAS can experience. I work diligently with my doctor and her teachers to monitor my child's development, especially mentally, so that we are on top of any new mental or emotional issues as they may arise. I will continue to be pro-active in my child's life long battle with FAS.